That's actually one of my fears. I'm a birth mom and my little girl is in a great home with loving parents. She's in open adoption so me and her bio dad are allowed to see her and spend time with her and she'll know who we are when she gets older. Giving up Ari was the hardest thing me and her father did there was aot of pain and tears but we know we did the right thing for our child. I dont have any claim on ari at all and if she gets older and decides that she doesnt want me in her life i will respect that and leave. In my opinion i just think bio parents want back the child that they gave up even though they knew what they were doing to begin with. But sometimes the child has a great life and decides they really dont want to meet there bio parents which is always there choice. Its not easy to make a choice that not only effects your future but of a whole other persons as well. I dont know what mine and ari's future will be if we will still be close are not but i know that i will always love her and that the choice i made i made for her.

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