He seems stuck on his own needs. It's time to take control of your wants and make your voice be heards. He seems caught up in making your lives together affordable to make sure he can overspend on his needs. I think this issue will be a poblem throughout your marriage - so take a stand and do what needs to be done. He should also be more thoughtful towards you - it doesnt seem that way. He wont change - so you need to take a stand and make sure stuff happens accordingly- it may not be the most romantic way but at least it will be done how you want it

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