Try to adopt a more positive attitude. Think of the good things in your life. You get to be with your kids. You are with a woman you (hopefully) love. Negativity attracts negativity, so just put a positive spin on things. I wasn't exactly sure what you wanted helpful hints about, but that's just my general life philosophy. Try to do better for yourself. You can't lament a situation you got yourself into.

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