He IS being cheap and that should send up big red flags. He spends 2 to 3 K on toys for himself, yet wouldn't even bother paying for you on your birthday. And it sounds like he can afford more than red eye and Motel 6 or wherever on your honeymoon! If it were me, that sort of cheapness of how he treats me relative to himself would be a dealbreaker. And from personal experience with 2 guys like this, it will only get worse.

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