OMG.... this hurts, i know because it has happened to me. a very similar situation as a matter of fact. Why the break? Perhaps he is feeling the seriousness of marriage, and he is slightly nervous about taking the big... the biggest step he going to take. as far as your encounter with another man while on your break... to me it seems harmless. I believe that he is putting you on the chopping block to dodge the real issue at hand. you talking to another man while on break does not violate any rules of relationship, but he has some issue with commitment and is using that as an excuse to prolong engagement. wait it out for a bit. if he still has trust issues, perhaps it is him, and not you that cannot be trusted. best of luck.

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