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Te vjeter 30-06-2007, 10:19
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Kryesore I found out the girl i'm dating has been sexually abused by a family member....?

She wouldn't tell me who but I'm pretty sure it was her older brother.....it was back when she was 13, he was in his 20's....she still sees him a lot as they all live in the same house.....when I heard this I was so shocked, why hadn't she done anything about it, apparently no one else knows....she is now 26, but her family is very messed up and she says there is always that untalked about tension between her and her brother......I am completely disgusted!!! How can a girl get raped and be so fearful and not tell anyone, and this ass gets away with this? The last girlfriend before me had casually mentioned that she had also been raped by a stepfather?!?! Right now I am very frustrated.....I am only dating this girl, but she is so weak, emotionally, and I don't know how to handle this.....I am not going to run away from her, she is real sweet and we get along well, but after revealing this to me I don't know what to do.....how do I handle this?I do talk to her and comfort her, but I feel like I should be doing something else to help her......What could I be doing besides being there for her and comforting her to help her?Don't misunderstand me.....I am NOT RUNNING AWAY from her, I want to be there for her, I have never run into this before and I need to know how to deal with it....
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