I really feel for you. I have a useless ex just like you, who won't even see his son. I think the best thing is if you could get him to do supervised visits to his son only (see a solicitor, remember you may qualify for legal aid), then if he's late or he doesn't show up he will have to deal with the consequences. As for what happened in the pub, i'm horrified! You're well within your rights to report that to the police as assault. You shouldn't ever have to deal with that. Good luck and lots of love xx

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