It sounds like he is trying to recapture his youth. The only way you are going to find out what he is thinking is to ask him.You need to sit him down and talk to him. Ask him why he needs to go out partying till all hours and where his commitment to your marriage / family is. There must be an underlying reason to it. Has there been a sudden life change or change in circumstances, or was he a party animal when you first met and has never grown out of it?You also need to tell him how his partying / drinking is making you feel. Could you arrange get away; Spend a weekend together; Go for a picnic in the park or a long drive.If you don't address these issues soon then they will build up and wreck your marriage. You could try going to marriage guidance if things are getting out of hand.Good Luck.

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