Ask yourself these questions:1) Would it be okay with me to marry this man and then lose him to the "next wife"?2) Would it be okay with me to marry this man and know that he may be with someone else?3) Why do I feel safe in a relationship with a man who is in a strong marriage?4) Would I rather stay with him this way than become his wife?I think the answers you find in your heart and mind might help you clarify what it is you want, what you don't want, and maybe what you should do.Good luck!

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