Let me recommend the book entitled "Pleasers" by Dr. Kevin Leman. I have a copy I am reading. Please read it. Let me say this: even in marriage, if you act as if you were french hamburger, I will eat you.You have to face this matter squarely, but you have to be prepared. So, again, I recommend the above-mentioned book to you. If you are not sure where to get it, go to the website
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