I know exactly how you feel. I have a 3 year old daughter and her father pays maintenance wich means he is alowed visitation rights. But he drinks alot and uses drugs. He doesn't make a mence to come see his daughter out of his own and she is very confused. I'd say go to court and get full custody of your son. Let him see his father under supervision. Nowadays fathers got too many rights, it's not that easy getting rid of them. Good luck.

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