Well if he's just setting a deadline for himself then perhaps you should address that he shouldn't rush into it and that he should find the right person. I know you are his mother, but he's an adult and can make decisions for himself. If he's with someone that he loves, then you should trust that he can make the decision. Even if you don't agree with them. It will either work out or he will learn from his mistakes.

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