You guys are married, so let it go, what difference does it make anyway. You both should try looking ahead and saving for your future. Not frivolous things and maybe he will stick to it better if you let him know that you don't need a 2nd "Big Deal" wedding. You are his wife and he's in Iraq so get with it and work hard so you guys can start anew when he gets home. You are his wife now, right ? Good Luck

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